Sorry bout that. I had to start a new one in mlc because the moderator said i needed to, then i started one on dropping the rope. I'll stick with the new one in mlc. I suppose you are right that im not in a ssm. But for years our sex life dwindled after the birth of our child....we both agree that we were just never able to connect again on that passionate level we once shared. I'm going to update over in mlc. You are right...still struggling with pursuit and distance.
Thanks 25! Your advice is more helpful than you know smile