If she says she's completely done and moving toward a divorce, I guess not. Would it seem like pursuing if I asked? If so does the extremely unlikely response of "yes get a full time job and I'll consider not getting a divorce" outweigh the much more likely response of "I don't care what you do anymore"?
I suppose if I ask in the way you've suggested, it wouldn't be validating that I give up on schooling. It would instead be asking if I took a different track if it would make a difference to her.
