Journaling - It's raining in LA.. in October! I grew up in PA and lived in Chicago for 7 years so seasons have always been a part of my life.
In LA, we don't have seasons. We have super sunny, kinda sunny, june gloom, and rain. I'll take the rain though. My car needed a wash.
The rain was a nice change of pace, though it makes driving more challenging since folks have trouble with inclement weather.
On the Westside, the storm has now passed and it's a nice sunny day!
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I can understand why the D process is so ugly now after only 24 hrs. The unsolved problems and feelings that you experience in your marriage only amplify in the D which would make sense. If those problems were solved, I most likely wouldn't be here.
V...so true! This is my constant struggle -- balancing DB, GAL, and the practical/unwinding.
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Because of this, I can understand the need for a L. Although my w and I are in different fogs, we are both in one.. It's hard to see the finish line, therefore difficult to know which road to take.
Whatever the feelings, I am going to allow myself to feel them and then deal with them. The more I'm dealing with stuff, the more I'm okay with dealing with stuff. I'm glad I'm not running any more, not matter how hard it is at times.
I admire your attitude. I know it's difficult for you on so many levels, but take comfort in knowing that you're handling this as well as you can.
I know that mediation is heading my direction...THANKS for giving me a glimpse into what I'm in store for.
I'm happy you're doing okay.
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11
