before I read any further, look at MY signature block.

YES you can file for legal sep in California and to an extent it protects assets in both names....thanks to my filing that, (which did NOT go over well with h at the time btw) but

though we lost a fortune with the whole Alaskan adventure/fiasco, at least our house couldn't be used as collateral for more "Investments" with his heroes'...

so about a year ago h said "good thing WE didn't mortgage the house for those guys..."

b/c he literally does not recall why "we" couldn't do so...I said, "yeah, good thing."

go figure.

I'll go read the rest now...


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change