Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Could you have said so much more about how you are moving forward and giving her something to miss by not contacting her?
Thanks for the sound advice as always 25. I thought about the first question and I guess in some ways I could. On the other hand, I did weigh the balance of remaining dark and in that instance it felt like had I not responded that would have been more of me running/hiding than it really was me staying dark to protect me.

The one thing I slipped in to was checking her twitter timeline on Monday night and I could tell she was still all over the place. In the few tweets I saw she was subliminally lashing out at other people, guys and girls alike, and it seemed to represent that in many ways she's finding out the grass isn't greener necessarily. It's like she knows she isn't where she wants to be and to some extent probably even knows she needs to be with me so we can both grow together but she's still in her own great level of discomfort fighting it. All the same, I'm doing my best to remain even keeled and keep my expectations low.

So you're right. Back to my GAL'ing it is.It's the only thing that keeps my sanity.


mid 20s
Tgther 7 yrs
W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11
W filed 05/11/11
I moved out 08/05/11
Mediation mid Oct 11
D final Dec 11
Now what? ...2012