The Lies and Deception Killing Me

[abbey1989]

So last night...was helping H get paperwork together for a prospective client meeting tonight. Pulled up his reference list and we edited them together one by one...THEN...came to the former couple (H's now OW and her former husband). He said to KEEP him (her ex-husband) on the list and delete her. I said definitely get rid of her and I pounded on the keys to remove her sorry *ss name, email and phone number. I think he felt uncomfortable. And the computer locked up while all of this was happening.

Looking back...I should have said...

....well shouldn't she stay on the list? Afterall, she would probably be a GREAT reference for you since you have helped her out so much.....

If only I had that quicker comeback. Instead it just triggered all of the emotions and I got myself upset and he just tried to act normal. WEIRD.