Awesome...you nailed it. W had a miserable, abandonment-filled childhood and has never recovered from it. She is the true "Injustice Collector" and perpetual victim. Add my baggage into the mix and it's a wonder we lasted this long.
That doesn't surprise me about your W's past. Honestly I feel bad for them. I do.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
Thanks. Sometimes when you think you're the only person who feels this way it's comforting to know there are others on the same path.
Hey I'm right there w/ you, every day won't be a holiday, it's okay to be down, there are still times when I cry, it's no fun, but I truly try to see the positive in everything. We will both be fine and better men b/c of all this.
And WW are fun.
I don't want to sound cruel........but some of the stuff that comes out of my WW's mouth.
I literally will laugh in her face.
And she will be all shocked and look at me and say "Why are you laughing at me"
The best is reverse fog babble
For instance if your wife hits with you " I never loved you "
Reply with " You know now that I think about it I never loved you either "
The look on their face......priceless
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun