I was a little peeved (inside not outwardly) because I was thinking of taking her out for a meal or something nice for the anniv. but she said not much to celebrate this year. So just rolling with it.
What do you have to be peeved about? You committed adultery, violated the trust of your W and she has stuck by your so far and SHE TOLD YOU she didn't want to do anything considering the past year. What do you expect?
You are darn lucky to be any position you are now. I hope you take some time to reflect on that and really count your blessings instead of being "peeved". Inward, outward it doesn't matter you shouldn't be mad AT ALL.
I know it's a trap when things start to improve to think that you are entitled to even the smallest things from your W. And get mad when they don't happen. You need to let go of that for now and for the next year or so.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
