HEY RICK,
i did a google search for support groups for divorced and separated in new jersey. Found two near me, one in kingston, one in pennington. Seems like most church's have a support group in one form or another, some are more structured, some less. Let me know what part of jersey you are in, i can help find a group for you, just let me know.

Thanks for the info on the solution focus, I will check it out. Hang in there today!!
Doug

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!