i'm breaking my vow of silence here, and i apologize to myself in advance.
going to the police station is an issue which you pretend to not grasp. all that information is readily available on the internet, so you went to make a statement.
but the larger issue here is that you purposefully left the pamphlets where he was sure to see it.
passive aggressive? ABSOLUTELY. it was immature, conniving, spiteful and mean.
from your descriptions you continuously provoke a response and then feign ignorance as to why he responded the way he did. and then blame him for the entire situation.
you are the source of your drama.
all you did here was hurt your daughter.
and made your situation much worse.
unless and until you take full responsibility for your own actions you will continue to make your situation worse.
look around you here. the people who are successful are the ones that put aside their pride, the excuses, the hurtful actions, and take a good hard look at themselves.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".