So my Annvi. is next week and I start my new job the same day. My anxiety level is a bit high. W and I have been having a good time of late laughing and joking around. She has been teasing me because I lost my wedding ring down the drain. I have lost 145 lbs over the last two years and I never got it resized and it slipped right off my finger right down the drain. She told me it was ok because she thinks if we stay together she wants a new wedding band set anyway. I was like ok, but I admit I feel a little lost with out it. Been on my finger for nearly 13 years. I am trying not to let the small stuff phase me much. She made plans Saturday night to hang out with her girlfriends. I was a little peeved (inside not outwardly) because I was thinking of taking her out for a meal or something nice for the anniv. but she said not much to celebrate this year. So just rolling with it.