Gunny: Hang in there. Be strong. I have been through the exact same thing, and it really does get better. W has been gone 7 weeks, with very limited contact. You W needs time and space if there is any hope for your M. Pick yourself up. Do not mope, don't hover, don't constantly look sadly at the pile of her belongings. Act as if. Move on with your life. GAL. She has to see that there is a reason for her to return. Keep the way home paved, smooth and bright.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012
