Grace, Love, Compassion, and Faith

[25yearsmlc]

Clap clap clap....I read it all.


And will process it more before being specific...only a few "L" comments

* if the worst that she can do is pay half, and you are requesting that,

then what does she have to lose by NOT mediating? Why shouldn't she fight for more, strategically speaking?

Oh, and if you are going to count assets jointly as 50/50

then why isn't it fair to count contributions that way too? (I.e. the health insurance...)

as for your increased rent, good point, except,

HER rent went up too

(and fault is legally irrelevant).

Well, enough for now. I got too specific too soon,

sorry


Val

you're brilliant to wait 2 weeks and to have gotten through this with "a starter's mindset"...and you didn't lose it, actually neither of you did so

kudos to both of you for that.

All in all, I'd have to say very well done.

((( )))