You mentioned you want to sell the house because the memories are too painful, and now you say you don't want her to get her stuff because her presence will be gone.
You have to get a grip and let go for your own sanity, and because it appears unattractive and weak to her.
If I were you, I would almost be tempted to pack her stuff up and ship it to her. It shows some kindness but at the same time demonstrates detachment.
I'd be interested in other opinions on that though, as I am relatively new victim of the WAW sitch myself.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
