Detachment and codependence go hand in hand so just search those topics at your bookstore or online. I read "Codependent No More" but it was awhile back.
My opinion? If you're strong enough to meet her and be confident and not get dragged into an R talk then I would agree with your C. Unfortunately, I don't think you are .....
And now the 2x4: You complain about things around the house reminding you of her but then you say you don't want to come home to a place with all of her stuff gone. Which is it?
Originally Posted By: cam
to me that's final. There's no going back.
Why? And who wants to go back? Shouldn't we be moving forward?
Cam, I think at some point you need to find your you-know-what's.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
