Even though I am not proud of it, it saved me. I remember sweating it out, trying to make my ex pay what he was responsible for. I was fine paying what the court made my part but when he stopped paying, I couldn't cover everything.
The L that I talked to said that he didn't want me to start being behind on the house and it was better to get a plan in place. It was all finished in 2 months once I filed. It may be your last resort but that is what it is there for.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory