Wife no longer in love with me - Part 4

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Thanks Drew. Do you know of any good reading on detachment and how?

Also interested in your thoughts on this:

My DB coach wants me to meet my W for a coffee to give her a set of keys to the house to get her things whilst I am away. And to be pleasant, kind and gentle with her. I probably could try this, but I am so scared as when she gets her things from the house, to me that's final. There's no going back.
I don't know whether I should be at the house if she does it, or let her do it herself.
But it's more the fact that I'm so scared to come home to a house empty of her presence.
Interested in your thoughts?

In terms of GAL, this morning I got an email from a bank in NYC wanting me to interview for a job, which would mean a move from Australia to USA. Very strange, as it's something my W and I were looking at 2 yrs ago together and now an opportunity comes up for me, and we're no longer together. Don't know what to do about it, whether I tell her or not.