I think everyone is right. Its too soon for kml suggestion but when the time is right that will be exactly the right thing. Barb is right about being too soon and gabby's mom is correct about thought redirecting. I have come to the realization that I need to do that to let go of the anger I've been holding on to. I've been hurting my girls terribly especially my older one and I just don't want to be that person who is angry for the sake of being angry.