Hey LR,
Sorry you are here but you are in great company.
Do you have another thread somewhere that could provide us with info. About your marriage - It's history, it's problems

Are you reading DB or implementing the 37 rules?

It's good to think about these things but don't stress yourself out by putting the cart before the horse.

What is about helping her move that would make it a complete 180 for you?


M(f): 43
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.