An issue that is so tough as well is when I watch my girls sometimes at night. She says she is very behind at work and wrote several paragraphs of what she needs to do that is due very soon.
I can't know that she will actually be working and not take off and be with him. It makes those nights very difficult.
She agreed with me that she would not hang out with him when I am watching the girls, yet, that is tough for me to believe. Why would she tell me the truth now? I think she often does, yet I never know. She went on a required business trip overseas and said the most that happened was kissing. She swears by it.
Anyways, if you would even want to answer this, what might be a good attitude to have when I am watching the girls and she is gone? I haven't seemed to find a way of thinking that calms me when she is gone. She is going to do what she is going to do anyways right? She was gone on a business trip with him for 10 days and I survived that? I don't know why I am so worried about this Thursday.
