Ok, ok, ok....stopping the obsession over this. There is nothing I can really do about it. Everyone else in the darned country (with the exception of a very small percentage) is facing the same mess.

Big girl panties - check.

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!