Well I feel stuck with my sitch. Not sure where I'm heading. W has soften a bit still cold but not like she was a couple of weeks ago. I know my L sent the response and she has it. She has not talked about the D, courts, the house nothing. So I'm in limbo and having a hard time with it. Saturday she bought mums for the front. She hasn't bought stuff for the house in about 2 years since she got the horse. Not sure what it means, is she trying to make the house look good for selling? Maybe I need to set up goals that are more specific. But I'm not in a place where I can ask for what I want. Do I need to detach more?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I have lost all hope that W will return to the M. I have to stop thinking about this 24/7 because it is affecting me. I am not sure what to do to improve our sitch. We still separated but under the same roof. No physical contact in months and she isn't letting up. Eat dinner and breakfast together. Other than that we speak very little. W goes from being nice to being cold and sarcastic. No R or D talk. Will see my IC tonight. That's it for now.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
