the more you pull him towards you the more you make him want to flee.
You are in effect pushing him away. Don't.
Physically pursuing him is NOT a good idea at this time...it's a bad idea.
This isn't a ssm marriage situation; it is a MLC h with major depression and you have some of your own big stuff. ML wont' fix it, especially if he is not interested and tells you that.
SSM is about mis-matched libidos and chronic sex issues. Yours is a symptom of other things and you are confusing yourself and the approach you need to take. You liked the Div Remedy book, correct? Keep reading it.
DBing only works when you work the DB program.
Choose an approach and stick with it.
Otherwise he'll get mixed signals and so will you - and neither will see needed changes in the other b/c you keep switching directions...
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
