Trying not to hope is hard

[~ kd ~]

Just so you don't take too much credit for the downfall of your M because you were a SAHD...

I wonder if the same could be said for SAHMs whose H's have MLC and / or leave them...

Or how about the SAHMs who leave their H's...

I don't disagree with Sandi and other's who do maintain the idea that men need to remain "manly" and undertake traditional roles as bread winners and protectors...

I still do maintain that more often than not, REASONS are just the obvious symptoms of deeper issues in a M... and I'd submit that SAH parent's perceived lack of contribution to the M is just a reason...