It's tough, MVP... My W has told me from pretty much day one that she didn't want to be M, but didn't want D, but wouldn't tell me to leave, but wouldn't ask me to stay...
She was and still maintains, she's happy doing nothing... and enjoying her social time with OM(s)...
It's ridiculous, I don't know what I'm waiting for, except that maybe she'll change her mind... anyhow, that's where many of us find ourselves...
So the question is, as 25 said... do you have a plan? Is it time for LRT? Are you ready for that, or do you just want to keep waiting, or confront as 007 said above... confront worked for you, before...
If nothing else, as they say... you can stand... just make sure it's not "still"...
