Well tonight worst fear was confirmed. Get your 2X4s ready:

Ok so I snooped. We have been in limbo for so long sing wife dropped bomb I had to look at her laptop. Her webpage was filled with messages between her and OM with I love you always and forever. I was looking for a sign but not this one.

Left the house lovingly even though I wanted to confront here, but where would that get me?

What next?

M 38
W 50
S 9, D 6
T 12 M 10
W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront
W's 2nd EA 6/2010
Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010
MC 2/2011 - 3/2011
W bomb dropped 4/2011
Nothing filed or done