I sent MIL flowers

[25yearsmlc]

Hi vc, you Crimson lover you--hey your son isn't going there is he? I forgive him if he is...but I won't forget! hey, that red is kinda like Alabama's... hmmm, interesting similarity...

OKAY...rysmom

Maybe when your H eventually comes out of the MLC, he will regret all that happened.
Until then, just enjoy life with your S and your family and friends.


my quibble here, and it IS just a quibble, is not to wait for your h to "wake up" and get it or regret it...

the sad truth is that he may NOT EVER on this earth, regret it or change his mind. There are days I think that the longer they stay away the longer and more deeply they justify things...

so the only thing YOU can do is LIVE the life God gave you as well as you can.

You may have been dealt a bad hand of cards but you still have to play them as well as you can.

And vc, if she's really only got one option to protect herself with, then we have to let those cards fall where they fall.

I'm not saying this will happen BUT I do have 2 family members who divorced and later remarried their exes...so it does happen.

Meanwhile rysmom, live well. Learn to be happy. Life IS a gift so let's treat it like one.

Oh, and re your other post, good for you telling H you wanted to sell the property and what you wanted to do with the proceeds. Now he knows you are not going to just let him take all and leave you with nothing. I am not saying your H would do that, but you never know what MLC will make them do. Or what ow will push them to do.

or what his Free Will does....

Maybe it won't be long before that wears off, I hope.

good luck, be strong.