In reality I don't want to sell the house, as we love the place and what we did to it. But I I feel like I am sitting here waiting for her to return when it's not going to likely happen.
I just don't get what she wants.....she said the next step for us is to talk about splitting assets, so I asked her what her thoughts are on this and what she wants. But she comes back and asks me to start thinking about it and let her know what I think or want.
I don't get it.....she wants this and the ball is in her court, yet she expects me to do the work.
I told her that we should sell, I didn't send the email. But not sure what to do now, given i said that, so she may be waiting for something to happen now.
So sick of this craziness and events occupying my thoughts all day.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011