Hey alamo, I actually came across your thread on one of the Christian porn addiction forums, and was surprised to see a link to here. Very cool. I've been here for 4 years, very similar story for me as well, ministry background and porn included. I'm a student at Dallas Seminary, on hold because of the sitch.
Looks like we're at the same step as well, I just responded to the D filing myself. We've been very friendly and had steps to reconciliation over these years, even recently, but she's pushing forward now. I'm going dark, really for the first time in my sitch, and it's really, really hard. Here's my thread if you care to swing by: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2150119&page=8
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
