you have every right NOT To invite her for sure. But if you do, I have mixed thoughts.
I like texting b/c it documents the conversation. That's the ONLY thing I like about it.
But I thought it might look nice that you invited her to join you guys, and bad of her if she refuses.
But On 2nd thought, it makes more sense to say it to her, in a way that shows you are NOT pursuing her, but simply didn't want to be rude by shutting her out.
Another option is to bring son, and you invite a friend (or 2 or 3 who also have kids)...and say nothing about the exact identity of who joins you all. Is your son now 4?
It would give some mystery to your GAL-- but what do you think she'd do with that info?
Just curious...
the downside of you inviting her is that she sees it as pursuit AND OR
she says NO and you feel hurt (except if you keep your expectations low, that won't matter so you're left ONLY with the downside of her seeing it as pursuit).
the upside is that she might say yes and you 3 have fun together...
last option---upside of you NOT inviting her is that she might think you are moving on and or, with someone else and or, GAl....and you and son have fun. Even better is if you really do invite someone fun to go as well...
now that I think it out, I like that last option best. Of course, it's your choice buddy. (( ))
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