Okay folks, random question (if it warrants 2x4s, so be it) that I have at the top of my head.

At this time last year (keep in mind that were already separated, but still under one roof), my wife and I took our son to a working pumpkin farm to pick pumpkins for Halloween. Our son had the time of his life and I plan to take him back there this year.

The random question that popped in my head today is: would it be a good/detrimental idea to ask my wife if she'd like to join us? My gut is telling me that the invite will come across as clingy or needy, but I know of a lot of people in this forum who have wiser guts than I do.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112