I'm not sure why you did not get a response! I am so glad to respond. I will say this. My wife and I have two girls 2 1/2 and almost 5. We separated and for me it is the best thing that could have happened. I have had the time to rethink what has been occurring and look at myself.
Friends and family have the best intentions for us, however the ONLY THING that really matters is what we feel is best in our heart and soul.
I told myself I will give this thing everything I have got (you have more trying in you than you may think, even over months or longer).
If it is too toxic at home, I would say consider a separation. It gives you both breathing room.
This is the big leagues of life. These experiences are not for the faint of heart. Hang on. What has happened since you last posted?
