Well I feel stuck with my sitch. Not sure where I'm heading. W has soften a bit still cold but not like she was a couple of weeks ago. I know my L sent the response and she has it. She has not talked about the D, courts, the house nothing. So I'm in limbo and having a hard time with it. Saturday she bought mums for the front. She hasn't bought stuff for the house in about 2 years since she got the horse. Not sure what it means, is she trying to make the house look good for selling? Maybe I need to set up goals that are more specific. But I'm not in a place where I can ask for what I want. Do I need to detach more?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
