What happens next part II?????

[25yearsmlc]

I don't know why you called her either...but anyhow, something called "Nature's Solution" is the best cleaner for urine. Removes the stain AND the smell and I have a very sensitive smell. I have had to reappy it twice, but it does work. Nothing else does the trick if something is really soaked.

We have 3 dogs but only the old pug does this. Good thing ours can't climb up on furniture too well.

You may have to get the "Nature's Solution" in a pet store like Petco and it has an enzyme in it that literally "consumes" the urine. My carpet cleaning guy told me to use that and so we do now. It's also easiest to use (do Not have to use any special gadget or time it, or soak AND then scrub AND then blot, etc).

OK--- so it's Weird that your w kept interrupting but good that your d saw it.

Why didn't you say "W, please let me finish"? then complete the sentence or question you were asking your d. Do not say it angrily, just matter of factly like she didn't notice or forgot that you were talking and you're merely reminding her...

It's better than simply talking over each other. If she does it again, you say it again. Sure, of course you have to let others talk too, but while you are speaking (assuming you have not taken over or monopolizied endlessly)
she should not interrupt you.

Again, tell her she interrupted you in a way that shows you are Not angry but merely reminding her that she's interrupting. If it continues, then you might remind her more forcefully, "W, I told you not to interrupt but you did it againg twice. I'm almost finished"....or "W, you've interrupted again but I want to talk to D about this. & I don't get much time with her"....

My d22tells me when I interrupt (she tells stories with way too much detail for my impatient ways, and I tend to want her to hurry up. She'll take 10 minutes to tell us about a dream she had)

But when she tells me I interrupted her, I usually don't get offended; I get embarrassed b/c she's right. Who cares if she takes a long time to tell the story? It's not air time that costs us money.

Good luck with the dog and the urine.

You can't just want it to dry for it stains and stinks then...but I strongly recommend you help with the cleaning...at least buy the stuff and put it on and show her the label.

Don't say she didn't want your help b/c she didn't come out and say she did, or b/c she said she didn't "need" it....that's not a refusal.


Good luck!