Back home - but for how long?

[NYCPeter]

Fair comments - but in my defence (and to be honest I'm not sure I've got much defence).

And then what do you do the very next day. Try to force her too with the time limit/goals thing.

I was trying to provide another option for her to think about rather than moving forward directly with filing. Delay tactic, anything that would extend the time she can see my 180's and GAL.

And then what did you do. You got pissy about it. If you are going to lecture her about her comings and goings then she isn't really "free" to come and go because you will always be there with a lecture about respect.

I was upset because she said she was leaving for an hour and came back 4 hours later.

But I accept your comments are spot on in the cold light of day.

Having said that - last night was the best night I had in bed with my W for months. She giggled at my jokes and she drew closer to me - I know it means nothing and that it was probably done out of guilt. But I enjoyed it.