I also said that the next step was hers to take - if she truly wanted to stop trying as she said last week, I couldn't force her to.
And then what do you do the very next day. Try to force her too with the time limit/goals thing.
Originally Posted By: NYCPeter
I told her that she's free to come and go as she pleases, but that coming in at those hours is not doing our relationship any good
And then what did you do. You got pissy about it. If you are going to lecture her about her comings and goings then she isn't really "free" to come and go because you will always be there with a lecture about respect.
You keep saying one thing then acting the total opposite. You need some consistency use the formula 25 preaches. It's not that hard.
What kind of message do you think this sends to W? Could you trust someone who did this?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
