Thanks MrB

I totally agree and like the reduce the negative, increase the positive vibe.

The fact that the olive branch is always there does give me hope, but the hope is always followed by hurt, when she retracts within herself, thats what I need to overcome.

When we are getting on, and again it's usually when OM is away!!!, we are great, it's like old times again without the hurt, but when she does retreat, I hurt and the anger comes out!, not good I know, I really need to work on that 1!!!

Sorry is again I was not clear enough my daughter wants a photo session with her, myself and my son, not my wife!!

That has got to hurt her a little?, and when she see's them, she must regret not being on them??

Thats for her to decide though.

Thanks for your thoughts.