Bond....in a way you are right. But I also feel like living in this house is causing me to live in limbo. It won't make me move on, as being here makes me feel like she will come back one day, which is very unlikely.
Doing this is also a test as well......which will probably go the way I expect, but it will make her actually follow through and put her money where her mouth is. So far she has done nothing but get her lawyer to send me a letter in June, and thats it. So if she is going to go ahead with this, then I don't know what she's waiting for.
Good points, no I dont want her to feel guilt...I want her to think about what she's doing and look at it harder, as I don't think she has. She is just blocking it as it's too painful for her.
So I don't do it then?
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011