There were moments when she would be *somewhat* like this before the A (blaming all the problems in our M on me, calling me an awful and selfish person when she was PO'ed, etc.) but there was never this amount of rage or avoidance of responsibility. No, the only reason I haven't totally walked away from her and pushed her out of my life in no uncertain terms is because this isn't who she is. I've known her more closely than anybody else in her life for years. Her behavior is highly unusual and out-of-character. Her family agreed with me on this when the A began.
I'm hoping that someday she'll come back to the person that she used to be. I guess we'll see.
