Quit snooping and causing yourself pain. You can't control her actions. Focus on you and your 180's in response to her provocative behaviours. Develop your own mystery by getting a life ( GAL) and making her curious. What's in your personal bucket list? Where can you start?
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
