Bag said: [i]SSMGuy. You will never get sound advice from the folks on a forum like this one UNLESS you are honest and accurate in the story that you tell us. Otherwise, you are wasting everyone's time -- yours and ours.
The issue for me is that my mindset is pretty much there. I've just lagged a little on implementing. The logic is basically that I don't believe I will ever have a sexual relationship with my wife again, no matter what I do. And I say that because I've spent so many years trying literally everything. At this point, the years have gone by and it's a matter of trying things for the 2nd time, 3rd time, etc... all the things that are the definition of insanity, as they say. And since neither my wife nor I want a divorce, the logic is that if I ever want to know what it's like to have sex with a woman again, it's going to have to be an open FWB type of thing. Maybe I'm on the wrong forum.
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At this point, I strongly suspect that your primary purposes in being here are partly to vent, but also to meet and talk to those 'HD women' that you are so fascinated with and keep asking us about.
You don't need to suspect it. Yes, I want to vent and hear from HD women. Hence the subject heading of this thread. It makes me feel more hopeful that they're all over the place. But meeting in person? Not practical through this board. There are plenty of other websites for that sort of thing, not to mention a few I've incidentally met in person at work or through friends.
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Along those lines, your claims to be in an "open marriage" and seeking "FWB arrangements" amounted to a bit of trolling on your part, with those 'HD women' you wanted to talk to in mind.
Well, like I said, I've already been "offered" several times, but chickened out. I was caught off guard a little and didn't expect it. You just have to have a ready frame of mind for this sort of thing.
