Sweet NYCPeter! That's right where you want to be. Sounds like you said exactly the right things to your W, and that she got a dose of reality from the L.

In my experience, that satisfied feeling comes and goes, so prepare yourself that you will have many ups and downs, even if you are at peace with your efforts.


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015