Does anyone think this is the right move, ie to force my W to sell the house given she is the one wanting all of this to happen??
Situation is I want to get out of the house, it is bringing me down living there as there are too many memories and too much of her/our stuff there. I will have to go and rent somewhere else, so I can't afford to keep our house and rent as well. So we need to sell and sooner rather than later as I want out.
I figure its going to happen anyway, but its all happening on her timeline and by her rules, so she can do all the work to make it happen if its what she wants.
I couldn't care how much we make off it, she sounds like she wants money now as she is realising she has nothing, she earns a modest salary....I earn about 3 times as much as her, so she will struggle when she eventually has to go it on her own (she is living rent free with a friend) - but as she says, she's been through so much crap in her life that she'll be fine.....I can just see this hitting her one day and she will realise what she's given up.

I just think its time to 'get my balls back' and stuff letting her call all the shots. Probably won't help with any DBing, but I don't see much hope of anything changing with her anyway.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011