Don't know if this will reassure you or not. I've internet dated this last year and thus far have met:

1) Married men that are accepting of the situation in their M's and don't want to work on it or have W's that don't want to work on it, so they're looking for a bit on the side.

2) Guys much, much younger just looking for kicks/experience.

3)Very recently divorced men that have a lot of personal work to do before they're good to anyone.

4)Men that want a one time sex partner, and are blatant about it.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.