I will also be removing my name from the car loan as soon as possible and I frankly don't care if you lose the car over it.
Lol -and she doesn't know squat about finance, does she? They won't take her off the loan just because she asks!
Let me ask you - do you think there are drugs or alcohol involved? Because her response is so out of touch with reality, it hints at substance abuse or mental illness. Either way, you may eventually count yourself lucky that you didn't make a family with her.