Tested the waters by sending a friendly text to W last night. Turns out she is very ill, and probably needs to go to ER or Urgent Care. She has been sick for over a week. She is very isolated, lonely, and now sick. My concern for her is very intense, and I do not know what to do about it.

I am conflicted as to whether she wants to hear from me or not. Kind of think she does, but am afraid I will push her away if I contact her on a more regular basis. How to know what to do?


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012