I have to disagree with KML on this one. You are still devestated by your ex's leaving and it takes a long time to heal. Throwing sex into the mix with someone new just confuses your feelings and doesn't allow you the healing and grieving time to heal.
Stick to the romance novels if they help (I couldn't even look at them for a while)> Believe that you will meet someone new if that is what you want when the time is right.
Concentrate of finding out who you are and setting new goals for yourself. Focus on your children. They need you now more than ever. And give yourself a break. Be kind to yourself. Indulge yourself. But you can go without sex for a while.
