Thanks 25 And JS. Told W that I wanted to go to the vet. She said you don't have to. I said he is my dog too and wAnt too be there. So I got in the car she handed him to me and we drove. D did not come. We spoke a bit strange silence at time. This was a 180 for me. In the past If she you don't have to I would have said ok. We haven't been together and alone in months. Our Pug has vestibular disease and we were told to watch. Him for few days. Went to my club after we got home. Told W if she was going out and needed me to come home and watch him to call me. Needed to Gal hope I did the right thing.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
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