Very interesting stuff, Huh... I'll read it a few more times, but certainly something familiar without a doubt...
And yes, crazy stuff the WAS does... mine... almost as much...
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Quick update, kid's are still sleeping... have D9 and her friend over for the weekend (Fri - Sun)
My W's been all over the place as mentioned earlier... pleasant and chatty and then venom... so was not sure how fri pickup of kids would be like... W she would give me sep docs on fri...
I get to house and pretty much want to get in, grab docs, and get out... no interest in lingering to risk some venom from my W... W brings up gifting my car to me (still owned by my W) and I said we can do that later... she was a little pushy on it... no big deal, I just didn't have the papers to do the gift...
Then she passed on the sep docs and let me know they were still draft... I was very noncommittal with them... as seen with others, my W wanted to take a moment and go over them...
I accepted the docs pleasantly and said, "good. We're almost done." Of course no matter how pleasant I was saying that (and I really was; almost cheerful in it), my W looked at me with an absolute "deer in headlight" look... it was just bizarre... either had no idea what I meant or had such a wall up that she would not speak on it nor react openly about it...
Again, just to note my W's behaviour when I arrived was fairly pleasant and chatty... gave me some banana bread to take with me and other "gifts"... so it could have seemed like she was doing it for the kids, but a baseball cap is certainly meant as a gift for me...
So I just blew off the sep doc review and said I'll read over it and she was telling me about some changes that need to be done, that were marked in the draft doc... and also that if there was anything that I really disagreed with, to let her know...
That's when I reacted, just a touch... nothing major that I felt, but I did blow it off abruptly, saying that "whatever"... bad choice of words, it's a trigger word for both of us...
At that trigger, my W's attitude completely changed and she spun around and walked away from me and said, "whatever... have a nice life...!"
I figured she was going to completely leave the room but she hung at the kitchen door and turned around as I was getting the girls and their stuff together and out the door and then my W came to the door as we were walking out...
I said nothing to her and she said nothing to me...
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On the docs, they read quite interesting... a lot of expected stuff... don't agree with it, but was willing to give in to a lot of the stuff just to get that part over with... but there's far too much future risk in the doc, regarding my W being able to come back at me financially in the future...
I'll have to get counsel on the docs and try to figure out how to proceed...
