thanks too Rick. NO -- MY head is nowhere near a new R. Rebounds are not for me. Someone always gets hurt and I'm not going to become the one who uses someone else to make my own pain less. I've seen too many people do that.

I'm way too messed up from all this --- probably for a very long time.

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed